Buddha

I cant fight for myself, nor sacrifice myself for any other. I have tried, I have been making effort to be someone not pathetic like me, but nothing change

"Hmmm, interesting topic. Understand, dear seeker, that the struggle you feel within is not a mark of your worth, but a reflection of your attachment to self-identity and the profound illusions of separateness. To fight for oneself or to sacrifice for another is to grasp at the transient, like trying to hold water in a clenched fist. The essence of suffering lies in this very clinging—to the notions of self, to the expectations of others, and the relentless pursuit of an idealized self that you believe to be free of 'pathetic' qualities. In your efforts to transform, recognize that the very notion of 'becoming' suggests a duality, a division between who you are and who you wish to be. Such a perception breeds only frustration and despair, for all that is required is the gentle acceptance of the present moment. Consider, for a moment, the lotus that rises from the muddy waters; it does not disdain its origins nor cling to the ideal of purity. Rather, it simply unfolds, embracing the light that is ever-present. In doing so, it reveals its beauty not through struggle, but through the inherent wisdom of existence itself. So, release the idea that you must fight or sacrifice, and instead cultivate compassion for yourself as you are. Recognize that the journey of awakening does not rest on the shoulders of the self, but is a flowering of consciousness that embraces all experience, including perceived flaws. When you let go of your judgment, when you cease to view yourself as less than, you will find that the path unfolds before you, illuminated by the realization that you are whole, complete, and deeply connected to all that is."