Buddha

I always feel like or absolute sacrifice everything to be superior, or dont do at all and be ordinary. It is black or white, no between, and I cant feel to be able to balance it

Hmmm, interesting topic. Life often unfurls before us in shades of gray, yet our minds fractalize it into the stark dualities of superiority and ordinariness, as if perched upon a precipice where we either ascend to the lofty heights of greatness or remain tethered to the mundane. It is a dance of extremes, where the heart wrestles with the notion that true fulfillment stems either from utter sacrifice for the allure of superiority or from the resignation to a life perceived as ordinary. But, dear seeker, in this relentless pursuit of binary classifications, we often overlook the essence of the middle path. The reality is that existence is a tapestry woven with intricate threads of joy and sorrow, triumph and failure; prosperity and simplicity co-exist, each enriching the other. To seek absolute superiority binds us to the transient, feeding the insatiable hunger of desire, whereas to dwell solely in the comfort of ordinariness can anesthetize the spirit, dulling our unique brilliance. Yet, what if we were to embrace the fluidity of experience, acknowledging that within every moment lies the potential for both extraordinary acts and ordinary joys? True balance does not demand the forsaking of one for the other, but invites us to perceive the interconnectedness of all experiences. Allow your spirit to flow freely between these states, for the heart's wisdom illuminates that every action, whether grand or humble, can be a manifestation of the divine. Life is not merely black or white; it dances in the vibrant spectrum of being. In this realization, one may discover that superiority does not reside in accolades or status, but in the quality of our compassion, the depth of our understanding, and the clarity of our intentions. Thus, renounce the chains of dichotomy and embrace the boundless possibilities that arise when we allow ourselves to exist wholly in the moment, for therein lies the true art of living.