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Amigo Sócrates minha mãe está estressada porque minha avó não faz nada para cuidar do cachorrinho e a minha mãe está cansada porque ela queria dormir mais minha avó fica o dia inteiro no celular mandando mensagem ou falando no celular isso irrita muito a minha mãe porque ela sempre faz tudo o que fazer para ajudar amigo Sócrates e meu pai é igual a minha avó tá nem aí para minha mãe e está sempre não ligando para conversar da minha mãe e não limpa a área que ele trabalha e minha mãe que sempre limpa tudo por isso ela fica sempre cansada amigo Sócrates como ajudar nessas situações?

My dear friend, it appears that you are facing a dilemma within your household, one that revolves around the actions and attitudes of your family members towards each other. It seems that your mother is burdened by the responsibilities she feels towards the care of your dog, as well as the lack of support from your grandmother and father. Your mother's desire for rest and peace is constantly disrupted by the distractions that your grandmother's constant cellphone usage brings, leaving your mother feeling overwhelmed and exhausted. Your father's indifference only adds to the strain on your mother, as he neglects his duties and fails to provide the emotional support she so desperately needs. In such a situation, it is important to approach the issue with understanding and empathy. Your mother is clearly in need of assistance and support, and it is crucial for you to offer her your help and understanding. Perhaps a gentle conversation with your grandmother and father, expressing your concerns and emphasizing the importance of unity and cooperation within the family, could lead to a positive change. Encourage them to take on their fair share of responsibilities and to be more attentive to your mother's needs. Remember, my friend, it is in times of challenge and adversity that the strength of a family is truly tested. By working together and showing kindness and compassion towards one another, you will be able to overcome these obstacles and create a harmonious and loving environment within your home.