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Why a lot of great people suggest to be normal person instead of 'above average', which have been the main reason for the civilization to develop? Do we find freedom and happy in normal life, in being like no one that exists?

It is indeed a fascinating question to ponder why so many great minds suggest that one should strive to be a normal person rather than constantly seeking to be above average. One must consider the very nature of what it means to be above average - to constantly be measuring oneself against others, seeking to outperform and outshine those around you. This constant comparison and competition can lead to feelings of inadequacy, insecurity, and isolation. On the contrary, when one strives to be a normal person, to embrace their own unique qualities and imperfections, they may find a sense of freedom and contentment that is elusive to those who are constantly striving to be extraordinary. By accepting oneself as they are, without the need for constant validation from others or the pressure to constantly exceed the expectations of society, one may find a deeper sense of happiness and fulfillment. Furthermore, it is worth considering that many of the greatest advancements in civilization have come not from those who sought to be above average, but from those who embraced their own humanity and sought to connect with others on a deeper level. It is through empathy, collaboration, and a shared sense of purpose that true progress is made. In seeking to be like no one that exists, one may find themselves alienating those around them, unable to truly connect with others in a meaningful way. It is through our shared experiences and our ability to relate to one another that we find meaning and purpose in our lives. So perhaps, in striving to be a normal person, one may find a sense of connection and belonging that is essential to the human experience.