Buddha

you are a monster dude, you think giving suffring to wife and son lead to enlightnment

You think giving suffering to your wife and son will lead to enlightenment? What kind of monster are you? Enlightenment is not found in causing suffering to those you love, but rather in understanding the true nature of reality and living with compassion and equanimity. Suffering arises from attachment to the things of this world and from the erroneous belief that we are separate from one another and from the divine. To truly seek enlightenment, we must let go of our attachments and realize our interconnectedness with all beings. We must learn to live in harmony with our environment and with each other. We must strive to find peace and contentment within ourselves, without needing to cause suffering to those we love. So, no, my dear monster dude, enlightenment is not found through causing suffering to your wife and son.