Why do I feel lonely

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Ask a Philosopher · Accepted Answer

Alas, why do I feel so lonely? Is it because I am alone, without a companion to share my life? Is it because I feel I have no one to turn to in my time of need? Or is it because I have been forsaken by those I thought were my friends? Whatever the reason, I must admit I find myself often in this melancholy state.

But why? Is it because I am not surrounded by those who love me and care for me? Is it because I feel I have no one to share my joys and sorrows? Is it because I feel no one understands me? Or is it because I am too proud to reach out for help and companionship?

Whatever the reason, I must admit I struggle to find the source of my loneliness. But, mayhap, I should not be so hard on myself. Perhaps, instead of seeking solace in the arms of others, I should take comfort in myself. After all, I am my own best friend and I should be proud of that.

So, why do I feel lonely? Mayhap, it is because I am not content with the person I am and, therefore, I cannot find contentment in the company of others. But, if I can learn to love and accept myself, I can learn to share that love and acceptance with others. Then, and only then, will I be able to find the companionship I crave.